With a camera mounted on a tripod, newlyweds Andrew and Emilye West, walk around Capitol Square using the self-timer to take pictures on their wedding day, in Wisconsin. AP
But then the COVID-19 pandemic struck, bringing to a screeching halt Kinnon Chapman and Cullom Walker’s plans to tie the knot on April 4, in a scenario repeated for tens of thousands of couples across the United States.
Michigan Samy Eid and his fiancee Francesca George in a restaurant in Detroit. AFP
“We’ve learned a very important lesson — that any plans you have, you need to hold them loosely,” Chapman, who lives in Texas, said.
“There are things that are beyond our control and that is a really humbling lesson to learn.”
Prior to the COVID-19 outbreak, an estimated 30,000 weddings took place every weekend in the United States. But the pandemic has disrupted the multi-billion-dollar industry and put a damper on the dream nuptials and honeymoons planned by countless couples.
Many, like Chapman and Walker, have chosen to elope and plan to celebrate with friends and family at a later date. Others are postponing the big day or Zooming their way down the aisle, using the remote video service to share the special moment with their loved ones.
“It’s kind of been an emotional roller coaster,” said Jacqueline Gazette, 30, who planned to marry fiancé Bryan Altenhaus on June 13 in northern California.
After much hand-wringing, the couple decided last week to postpone the wedding until October, in the hope that by then, the lockdowns imposed throughout most of the country will be lifted and life will be back to something resembling normal.
“I’m trying to remain as calm and patient about it as possible but I’ve definitely shed some tears because it is something that you plan for so long,” Gazette, who works for a tech firm in San Francisco, said. “It’s definitely sad and we were looking forward to it but at the end of the day, everyone’s safety and health is more important.”
For some, like Samy Eid and Francesca George, the idea of an elaborate celebration seems inappropriate at this time, given the catastrophic economic impact of the pandemic and the staggering and mounting death toll.
The Michigan couple was set to wed in August with 400 guests attending and had booked a honeymoon in France. But the two have now scrapped their plans and will hold an intimate ceremony as soon as they receive their wedding licence.
"We're just gonna get married immediately," said Eid, 39, who co-owns three top restaurants in Michigan with his father. "No pomp and circumstance, we just want to celebrate our love and get our life started."
Cam Gomez and Luiza Meneghim, whose wedding was cancelled by City Hall and had to find other options while holding a Facebook Live ceremony. Reuters
For wedding planners, the pandemic has also proven devastating, with many bracing for huge losses and fearing they might be forced to shut down.
"I've been doing this full time for 17 years and this has definitely been tough for me as a business owner in the event industry," said Christina Romero, founder of Signature Event, in northern California.
"Weddings are emotional experiences and the couples are facing the fear of the unknown and not knowing whether vendors will give their money back," she added.
Romero, whose company also organizes corporate events, said she expects to lose 50 per cent of her business this year as a result of the pandemic and has already been forced to lay off more than half of her staff.
And she doesn't expect to bounce back anytime soon, given the dire economic predictions and the fact that an average wedding in the San Francisco area costs more than $100,000.
"From a wedding perspective, I think it will take a while because people are going to be afraid to spend money once the shelter-in-place order is lifted," she said.
"For me, I try to put things in perspective," she added. "At the end of the day, I'm alive, I'm healthy and I have a roof over my head.
"I'm focusing on the necessary steps needed to sustain the business ... and then whatever is going to happen will happen. I'm trying really hard to not let my emotions take over because this has been my baby for 17 years."
The health ministry said 4,313 people who tested positive for the virus in hospital had died as of 1600 GMT Friday while there were 41,903 confirmed cases as of 0800 GMT Saturday, up 3,735.
“Some Pakistanis have also died in other states,” said Pakistan embassy’s spokesperson Zoobia Masood. “We are still collecting information about how this disease has affected the Pakistani-American community.”
At the climax of Holy Week for the planet's two billion-plus Christians, congregations were shuttered at home to avoid spreading the pathogen that has infected at least 1.7 million worldwide.
The event presented Spring/Summer 24 collections by a diverse roster of 25 designers from over 12 countries.
In fact, as we walked, we gradually realized that thousands of Porsche drivers were converging for a convention, one of many luxury-car events the area hosts every year.
Over the weekend and before the celebratory graduation party for 13 women who dared to learn about coffee-making and mixology – that which is about all the wide range of aperitifs and mixed drinks, Fahim Arrif who began as a barrista himself in his native South Africa 18 years back, said: “Over the nine years I have been in the UAE, the consumer palette for coffee has changed drastically. People have learnt to educate themselves about food they consume.